LUIS DANCING AT OUR WEDDING
“Do what you love,” my friend Luis advised me, “and you will stop time.”
I imagine myself swimming at a spring in Florida, where the manatees gather for warmth once winter begins. It is here that these marine mammals roll over on their backs to let humans rub their stomachs.
Luis died one week ago…the ultimate time stopper—DEATH. Yet what Luis had meant about STOPPING TIME was something profound. STOPPING TIME meant LIVING in the INFINITY of the present moment. Luis excelled at LIVING. When I met him, he was a frequent dancer of everything: merengue, salsa, swing. He soon took to skydiving. Then he learned to fly airplanes. Next, he became an avid golfer. From that he dove into martial arts. Most recently, he had been getting immersed in the world of photography. All along, he was a talented musician playing both the keyboard and guitar.
“DO WHAT YOU LOVE,” Luis said, and he lived his advice, engaging others with him in a Tom Sawyer like fashion. What will everyone do without Luis?
I imagine myself a FLYING FISH thrilling in both water and air, BEING IN THE MOMENT OF MOVEMENT. It was Luis who got me MOVING almost 12 years ago. I was 40, and my long term Russian boyfriend had disappeared into another relationship. I was unmarried and childless, fretting about my biological clock ticking away furiously.
“DO WHAT YOU LOVE and YOU WILL STOP TIME,” Luis had said. I followed Luis’ advice. I joined the Atlanta Bicycle Campaign to pursue my interest in conservation and physical health. I started attending the Unitarian Church to seek answers about the GREAT MYSTERY. I signed up with the Jungian Society to deepen my understanding of archetypes. Every weekend, I collected friends to soirée at art exhibits. I broke up the status quo of my life and made new friends. These friends intersected with other friends. TIME PAUSED for me. I was purely involved in MY OWN LIFE. Then I found my Chiboogamoo, my precious, precious husband.
Thank you Luis, for the way you connected with me and gave me what I needed. You HEARD me, and you shared with me what you knew about LIFE.
THE GREAT MYSTERY: LIFE ENDS SUDDENLY regardless of our intention. We need to make sure we LIVE our lives NOW. We are simultaneously fragile and resilient. TAKE TIME to DO WHAT YOU LOVE.
Hallelujah invites you to tell her what is that stops time for you. SOUL BLOG now.We enter the GREAT MYSTERY.